....AS WE CELEBRATE

          COMPLIMENTS OF THE SEASON!

I want to use this medium to wish all my readers a merry Xmas and prosperous 2015.

As the year runs to an end I want us to reflect on the way we lived our lives in 2014, our actions and inactions, what should we have done better, what should we have avoided...

I perfectly agree with Albert Einstein on this statement “only an insane person does the same thing over and over and expect a different result”

Did you hit all your targets in 2014?

Did you achieve all your dreams?

Did all your expectations come to pass in 2014?

If your answer is NO (even if YES which I doubt anyway!)

As we prepare to bid 2014 farewell let’s reflect on how to make 2015 a better year.

I understand the year has not ended yet and there are still things that can be fixed up before the year runs to an end however the reality is that many big projects can’t be done again this year expect by miracle (which I believe in too!)

Give all your best to realize all your achievable dreams before the year runs out but for the bigger dreams just reflect on how to make it come to pass in 2015.

For instance if yours is to build a sky scrapper which you have not started it can only come to pass in your dreams (when you sleep ) before 2014 runs out!!!

Once again on behalf of myself and my crew, I wish you all a merry Xmas, fruitful and blissful 2015

Better times lies ahead of us all in 2015

Dr Williams

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BE THE EXAMPLE

                                     LIVE BY EXAMPLE

 

 

I will rather see a sermon than hear one any day, I would rather you would walk with me than merely showing me the way. The eye is a better pupil and more willing to learn than the ear. Fine counsel may be confusing but example is always clear. Best of all preachers are men who live their creeds.

-         Anonymous ( mended)

 

DR WILLIAMS

DISCIPLINE; A GREAT VIRTUE

                                             LEARN TO BE DISCIPLINED

‘The cost of regret far exceeds the price of discipline’ – Dan Green

If you ever want to get to the peak in any area of your life, DISCIPLINE is what you will never want to joke with even in Spiritual things.

It causes great pain when you find yourself in a mess that could have completely been avoided only if you had been a little more disciplined, the regret is usually inconsolable.

Have you ever done anything / taken any step/ made any mistake that you deeply regretted afterwards? What immediately comes to your mind afterwards?  Don’t you think about what you could have done to avert that error?  If you discover that you could have averted the mistake if you had been a little more thorough or disciplined don’t you feel worse? That’s it!

How laughable is it when some criminals in court regret their actions after being caught and they blame it on satan especially the rapists, inability to delay their sexual urge for some minutes landed them in a show of public and everlasting ridicule. I wonder what enjoyment they derive in forceful sex which is dangerous and painful to both parties and worse still damaging the lady’s self esteem; many of them commit suicide or live with shame thereafter. Some go the extent of raping a minor (I wonder what’s appealing to them), recently I read of 7 men raping one lady!!!

Many of these cases are due to inability to exercise self control over sexual desire!!!

 I personally consider it a barbaric act that must not be swept under the carpet.

Great men don’t just get there overnight, they have set of rules they abide by on a consistent basis; that’s the discipline I'm talking about.

Learn to go that extra mile, delay that self gratification, burn that midnight oil, learn to pay the price for whatever you want to achieve, be patient but consistent……YOU WILL ARRIVE THERE.

Good and lasting structures don’t just happen, it takes time; even God takes His time to build anything that will last.

Set up rules for yourself

Be disciplined enough to follow it

Be consistent

 

Remember “EAGLETS MAY HAPPEN BUT EAGLES DON’T, THEY ARE MADE”

Dr Williams

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HEY , DON'T BE AFRAID OF TAKING THAT FIRST STEP

                                                TAKING THE FIRST STEP

In life, many people have several thoughts going through their minds that if actualized they are capable of catapulting them into greatness. However the problem is usually the courage to TAKE THE FIRST STEP.

In many instances taking the first step is as important as reaching the destination.

What I have come to find out is this in real life experience, as you take the first step in actualizing your dream (whatever it is) the subsequent steps spontaneously open.

Nature, everyone and everything around you will help you so you can almost effortlessly take the next step.

If you decide to be successful in life, people will help you and if you choose otherwise, trust me people will also help you after all it doesn’t cost them anything.

I love this saying: Courage is the discovery that you may not win and trying when you know you can lose – TOM KRAUSE

Taking the first step does not always guarantee success however without taking the first step success is not guaranteed- AGUNBIADE WILLIAMS

Condition will not always be right, everything might not always be in shape but you must learn always to take the first step towards actualizing your God given dream.

Taking the first step might involve stepping on some toes but change as you know is never easy and it’s not designed to be easy.

Your friends, family members and associates may not even agree with you, Whenever you take the first/right step towards anything good, some people must be hurt (if not I doubt if that thing is good) but when you continue in that course and you make success out of it; the same people will be among the first set of people to come and congratulate you.

On the other end, if you don’t do the needful because of the people you will hurt, it’s the same people that will come later and blame/insult you for not trying at all especially when you now suffer the repercussion of not trying.

 That’s the irony of life my friend.

I heard this story of a very young boy who was carrying gun in South Africa during the apartheid war, when asked why he was fighting and not afraid of death at a tender age he said:

‘Our fathers did not fight yet they still died, we will fight who knows we might win’……eventually, they won!!!

I will also never forget this ancient proverb : IF WE DON’T FIGHT WE HAVE LOST BUT IF WE FIGHT WE MIGHT WIN

My dear readers , don’t be afraid to take the first step, even if you fail at that at least you would have known one way that cannot lead to that destination.

Go ahead and list those things that you want to achieve all this while but has been delayed unnecessarily, write down step by step how you intend achieving them.  Ensure you write them down PLEASE, it’s your first step in actualizing them.

Then take practical steps towards it from NOW.

Enjoy your practice! I

Wishing you all success in your endeavour.

Remember I told you of a business opportunity in oil & gas sector

1.       Would you listen to an exciting opportunity?

2.       Do you have a need for an additional income?

3.       I found a way of making some excellent income by income by working with people. Would you be interested in hearing about it?

4.       Have you ever considered having your own business?

5.       Do you know any person who will be interested in a part time career that offers excitement and huge income potential?

6.       If you could earn extra cash this year with a part time business would you be excited?

7.       Would you be interested in increasing your present income substantially?

8.       I have found an opportunity that offers me the kind of future I have always dreamt of. Can I talk to you about it

9.       I’m in a position with a new business where I can double my full time income on a pat time basis

10.   I found a way to retire in the next few years with this business I just started. Do you have some minutes you can spare me so I can discuss with you?

If yes please get in touch with me NOW at agunbiadewilliams@yahoo.com or inbox on Facebook.  Its time dependent.

 

HURRY NOW WHILE IT LASTS. MAKE HAY WHILE THE SUN SHINES. GOOD LUCK!!!

 

DR WILLIAMS

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HAVE YOU SMILED TODAY?

 HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE, CHOOSE WISELY

The time to be happy is now, the place to be happy is here, and the way to be happy is to make others so- Robert G.I

Many times people hang their happiness on several factors such as people around them, condition at work place, government, friends and families, money, material things e.t.c

So when these factors do not give them a positive feedback they become sad and when you ask them what’s going wrong or why they are sad they mention different things or people.

If you are feeling or appearing sad or unhappy, I think it’s because u agreed to be sad at that point in time. Sadness needs your permission before your infected with it, it must have written a letter of consent to you and you gave approval.

Now don’t misunderstand me, I know there are unforeseen circumstances that occur which are not pleasurable to us and I believe almost everyone reading this must have experienced this at one point or the other.

 Its okay to temporarily feel bad and express the grief when things go wrong, even the psychiatrist advice this. Covering up and not expressing grief at all when occasion warrants it could lead to future psychiatric complications so I don’t advice that either also.

What I’m saying is that you shouldn’t perpetually remain in that state; it doesn’t help you or the situation. There are simple questions you should ask yourself, is the situation redeemable or not, can anything be done to reverse the situation, is there any iota of hope in the prevailing circumstance?

In some cases the answer to all these could be NO e.g when someone dies you can’t see the person physically again (other thing being equal ). What should you do? Tell yourself the truth and agree with it. If you keep a sad state, you will be losing on two sides, the situation is irredeemable and your health (especially the mental component) too is failing. Why not choose to limit the lose on one side and decide to win on the other side. MOVE AHEAD, REGARDLESS OF WHATEVER; LIFE HAS NOT ENDED. WHEN THERE IS LIFE THERE IS HOPE.  If you are still alive then you can choose wisely and stay happy.

On the other side, if something can be done that’s good news. Sit back, relax, take a deep breath, and re-strategize. Make another plan.

It’s never too late to start again, when there’s life there’s hope. Don’t get caught in the web of depression. Life is too short than for it not to be enjoyed.  Do you know it takes more muscles to frown than to smile, it’s been proved scientifically that those who frown always get to look older than their age compare with those who smile always, they always look younger than their age.

Wouldn’t you rather look younger than your age?

Life actually is beautiful (depending on how you see it ),have you smiled today?

 HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE, CHOOSE WISELY, CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY.

 

DR WILLIAMS

MY FRIEND FRANK

 TRIBUTE TO MY FRIEND OKOLI EMEKA FRANK AS HE CELEBRATES HIS BIRTHDAY


I may not have money or gifts to shower on you today but permit me to say the little I know about you here as a token of appreciation
 What a friend I met in you Emeka, I never  knew we will go this far when we first met, little did I know that it was a destiny friend I met not just an acquaintance.
You will always show up whenever I needed a friend, you stood with me in times of crises, you kept giving me hope when I have even lost hope on matters that matter.
You encouraged me till I was strengthened when I needed to deal with difficult tasks, you have taken the courage to correct me in things every other person seems to avoid.
You did not just accept me with my weaknesses but have contributed immensely (even at your detriment)  to making me become a better person in those areas.
You have cheered me up to make life changing decision.
You are a real friend indeed, your input in my life can never and will never be underestimated.
You have taught me that regardless of how big you are, your real friends must never be afraid of confronting you when you are wrong.
You have taught me that friendship is not just about applauding each other deceitfully even when it was obvious that all was not well.
What a very down to earth guy: applauds you when you deserve it, frowns at you when you also deserve it.
You took it on yourself to make up for my lapses in friendship.
You told me over and over that whatever difficulty I'm going through we are in it together!
You have taught me the true meaning and essence of friendship.
Yes we have had our disagreements but that has only succeeded in strengthening our friendship.
Kind, loving, intelligent, smart, innovative, diligent, honest, responsible, Godly, husband of a favoured woman ( HELLO MARY!!!)....... to mention but a few.
Time and chance will not permit me to say everything about you here.

I wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MANY HAPPY RETURNS, LONG LIFE AND PROSPERITY.
May God's blessing fill you and rest on all you lay your hands upon from now on and forever.....AMEN
LOVE YOU SO MUCH MY GUY.

DR WILLIAMS.

THE CONCLUSION: WATER SERIES

Hello friends, happy New Week

 I do hope you enjoyed your weekend?

I’m about to complete the water article I started some days ago, please don’t underestimate the power of water. Try following the advice and you will know the difference.

Less I forget, have you read about the opportunity to invest in the oil and gas sector of the economy with a token as a startup capital. IT’S A MUST READ FOR YOU. Mail me immediately if you have not done so.

Here’s the conclusion of the water series…..

 

                         …..BENEFITS OF WATER

 

Puts You in a Good Mood – When the body is functioning at its best, you will feel great and be happy! Everyone like to feel good you know. 

Cost Almost Nothing! -   Water is FREE! Even if you choose to go with sachet/packaged/bottled water, it’s STILL cheaper than junks that would eventually harm your body!
 

Helps Digestion (repeated):-   Indigestion can make you so uncomfortable but luckily drinking enough water to the colon which helps make the content move smoothly.
  

                                  ACTION TIME

Here’s how to keep yourself hydrated: Start by drinking a glass of water as soon as you wake up, and 30 - 45 minutes before eating any big meal. (This will even help control your appetite).

 Get used to the  habit of keeping a bottle of water close to you at all times.  Before you know it, all the benefits of water will be right at your fingertips…. and in your body.

Your body needs more water when you are:

• In hot climates
• More physically active
• Running a fever
• Having diarrhea or vomiting ( YOU NEED ORAL REHYDRATION THERAPY HERE NOT JUST ORDINARY WATER!!!)

• Adding  lime or lemon to your water can help improve the taste and might help you drink more water than you usually do.

 

Do this over the next few days or weeks and let me have your feedback okay.

Truly yours,

Dr Williams.