DISCIPLINE; A GREAT VIRTUE

                                             LEARN TO BE DISCIPLINED

‘The cost of regret far exceeds the price of discipline’ – Dan Green

If you ever want to get to the peak in any area of your life, DISCIPLINE is what you will never want to joke with even in Spiritual things.

It causes great pain when you find yourself in a mess that could have completely been avoided only if you had been a little more disciplined, the regret is usually inconsolable.

Have you ever done anything / taken any step/ made any mistake that you deeply regretted afterwards? What immediately comes to your mind afterwards?  Don’t you think about what you could have done to avert that error?  If you discover that you could have averted the mistake if you had been a little more thorough or disciplined don’t you feel worse? That’s it!

How laughable is it when some criminals in court regret their actions after being caught and they blame it on satan especially the rapists, inability to delay their sexual urge for some minutes landed them in a show of public and everlasting ridicule. I wonder what enjoyment they derive in forceful sex which is dangerous and painful to both parties and worse still damaging the lady’s self esteem; many of them commit suicide or live with shame thereafter. Some go the extent of raping a minor (I wonder what’s appealing to them), recently I read of 7 men raping one lady!!!

Many of these cases are due to inability to exercise self control over sexual desire!!!

 I personally consider it a barbaric act that must not be swept under the carpet.

Great men don’t just get there overnight, they have set of rules they abide by on a consistent basis; that’s the discipline I'm talking about.

Learn to go that extra mile, delay that self gratification, burn that midnight oil, learn to pay the price for whatever you want to achieve, be patient but consistent……YOU WILL ARRIVE THERE.

Good and lasting structures don’t just happen, it takes time; even God takes His time to build anything that will last.

Set up rules for yourself

Be disciplined enough to follow it

Be consistent

 

Remember “EAGLETS MAY HAPPEN BUT EAGLES DON’T, THEY ARE MADE”

Dr Williams

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HEY , DON'T BE AFRAID OF TAKING THAT FIRST STEP

                                                TAKING THE FIRST STEP

In life, many people have several thoughts going through their minds that if actualized they are capable of catapulting them into greatness. However the problem is usually the courage to TAKE THE FIRST STEP.

In many instances taking the first step is as important as reaching the destination.

What I have come to find out is this in real life experience, as you take the first step in actualizing your dream (whatever it is) the subsequent steps spontaneously open.

Nature, everyone and everything around you will help you so you can almost effortlessly take the next step.

If you decide to be successful in life, people will help you and if you choose otherwise, trust me people will also help you after all it doesn’t cost them anything.

I love this saying: Courage is the discovery that you may not win and trying when you know you can lose – TOM KRAUSE

Taking the first step does not always guarantee success however without taking the first step success is not guaranteed- AGUNBIADE WILLIAMS

Condition will not always be right, everything might not always be in shape but you must learn always to take the first step towards actualizing your God given dream.

Taking the first step might involve stepping on some toes but change as you know is never easy and it’s not designed to be easy.

Your friends, family members and associates may not even agree with you, Whenever you take the first/right step towards anything good, some people must be hurt (if not I doubt if that thing is good) but when you continue in that course and you make success out of it; the same people will be among the first set of people to come and congratulate you.

On the other end, if you don’t do the needful because of the people you will hurt, it’s the same people that will come later and blame/insult you for not trying at all especially when you now suffer the repercussion of not trying.

 That’s the irony of life my friend.

I heard this story of a very young boy who was carrying gun in South Africa during the apartheid war, when asked why he was fighting and not afraid of death at a tender age he said:

‘Our fathers did not fight yet they still died, we will fight who knows we might win’……eventually, they won!!!

I will also never forget this ancient proverb : IF WE DON’T FIGHT WE HAVE LOST BUT IF WE FIGHT WE MIGHT WIN

My dear readers , don’t be afraid to take the first step, even if you fail at that at least you would have known one way that cannot lead to that destination.

Go ahead and list those things that you want to achieve all this while but has been delayed unnecessarily, write down step by step how you intend achieving them.  Ensure you write them down PLEASE, it’s your first step in actualizing them.

Then take practical steps towards it from NOW.

Enjoy your practice! I

Wishing you all success in your endeavour.

Remember I told you of a business opportunity in oil & gas sector

1.       Would you listen to an exciting opportunity?

2.       Do you have a need for an additional income?

3.       I found a way of making some excellent income by income by working with people. Would you be interested in hearing about it?

4.       Have you ever considered having your own business?

5.       Do you know any person who will be interested in a part time career that offers excitement and huge income potential?

6.       If you could earn extra cash this year with a part time business would you be excited?

7.       Would you be interested in increasing your present income substantially?

8.       I have found an opportunity that offers me the kind of future I have always dreamt of. Can I talk to you about it

9.       I’m in a position with a new business where I can double my full time income on a pat time basis

10.   I found a way to retire in the next few years with this business I just started. Do you have some minutes you can spare me so I can discuss with you?

If yes please get in touch with me NOW at agunbiadewilliams@yahoo.com or inbox on Facebook.  Its time dependent.

 

HURRY NOW WHILE IT LASTS. MAKE HAY WHILE THE SUN SHINES. GOOD LUCK!!!

 

DR WILLIAMS

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HAVE YOU SMILED TODAY?

 HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE, CHOOSE WISELY

The time to be happy is now, the place to be happy is here, and the way to be happy is to make others so- Robert G.I

Many times people hang their happiness on several factors such as people around them, condition at work place, government, friends and families, money, material things e.t.c

So when these factors do not give them a positive feedback they become sad and when you ask them what’s going wrong or why they are sad they mention different things or people.

If you are feeling or appearing sad or unhappy, I think it’s because u agreed to be sad at that point in time. Sadness needs your permission before your infected with it, it must have written a letter of consent to you and you gave approval.

Now don’t misunderstand me, I know there are unforeseen circumstances that occur which are not pleasurable to us and I believe almost everyone reading this must have experienced this at one point or the other.

 Its okay to temporarily feel bad and express the grief when things go wrong, even the psychiatrist advice this. Covering up and not expressing grief at all when occasion warrants it could lead to future psychiatric complications so I don’t advice that either also.

What I’m saying is that you shouldn’t perpetually remain in that state; it doesn’t help you or the situation. There are simple questions you should ask yourself, is the situation redeemable or not, can anything be done to reverse the situation, is there any iota of hope in the prevailing circumstance?

In some cases the answer to all these could be NO e.g when someone dies you can’t see the person physically again (other thing being equal ). What should you do? Tell yourself the truth and agree with it. If you keep a sad state, you will be losing on two sides, the situation is irredeemable and your health (especially the mental component) too is failing. Why not choose to limit the lose on one side and decide to win on the other side. MOVE AHEAD, REGARDLESS OF WHATEVER; LIFE HAS NOT ENDED. WHEN THERE IS LIFE THERE IS HOPE.  If you are still alive then you can choose wisely and stay happy.

On the other side, if something can be done that’s good news. Sit back, relax, take a deep breath, and re-strategize. Make another plan.

It’s never too late to start again, when there’s life there’s hope. Don’t get caught in the web of depression. Life is too short than for it not to be enjoyed.  Do you know it takes more muscles to frown than to smile, it’s been proved scientifically that those who frown always get to look older than their age compare with those who smile always, they always look younger than their age.

Wouldn’t you rather look younger than your age?

Life actually is beautiful (depending on how you see it ),have you smiled today?

 HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE, CHOOSE WISELY, CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY.

 

DR WILLIAMS